Most Love Has an Expiration Date

I wrote this title a while ago.  No words tapped out, simply a thought in my head.

"MOST LOVE HAS AN EXPIRATION DATE"

Some may say I am cynical.

Some may say I've been hurt.

Others may empathize.

Love can be tricky, sneaky and all consuming.  

Love can be the best and worse emotion ever experienced.

Many won't allow love into their lives.  They will have No love for themselves or anyone around them.  They may use the word, but never truly feel it.

Love is first experience as a child, when we are infants, by our parents.  This is when we are most vulnerable to being loved and cared for.  This love is the fundamental building blocks of our human development.

How our parents loved us, reflects on how we love ourselves, and soon translates to how we love the people in our lives.

It all comes full circle. 

How we feel about ourselves at any stage of our lives, attracts different people into our lives. Many of these people we will love.  We may love them for an extended period of time or maybe we will love them for a short period of time.  The love is real, the love is strong, but there is always a possibility that it will change, hence EXPIRE! 

"UNTIL DEATH DO WE PART"

I believe these words should be changed to be:

"UNTIL WE HAVE A CHANGE OF HEART"

This allows the relationship, marriage or otherwise, to be empowered with a choice as oppose to an obligation forced by forever.  It is no longer destined for an infinite, unfilled commitment, if one person changes their mind.

Be honest, we all have been in a relationship that has changed. What makes some of us stay and others part ways?

If we all mental made up our minds to accept that love expires, moving on is less painful, and no one has failed.  It mentally releases both people from being stuck in a relationship that is no longer serving their needs. We all grow and change and want different things at different times. 

Some love may never expire, but most love will.