Crazy Ex - Blog Series : Pretending they are dead

We have all wanted our exs dead at some point.

Emotionally killing them is the only true solution. 

Pretend their dead.  

They do not not exist.

They are not relevant.

They are not important in your life.

Does this seem too easy?

Why not just act as if.

As if they never hurt you.

Controlled you.

Destroyed you.

Belittled you.

Failed you.

They never touched your life.

Maybe this feels or seems cold,

however what if? 

You never meet.

They would have no meaning on who you are.  

No relevance on your life.

Just imagine for one moment that they are dead.

I realize there are times when you literally wish your ex dead.  You may have planned how they will die.  You may have thought,

"would I kill them if I knew I could get away with it." 

Or maybe you wished a terminal illness on them.

Sometimes, just the thought is enough. 

Most us would never actually kill our exs. 

Most of us would only think, "what if?"

In many cases, you would only have these thoughts if they have made your life a living hell.  

If they have made your life so incredible difficult that you loathe them and wished they simply did not exist. 

For the few people who have killed their exs and who I'm sure are not reading these words right now, I can guarantee, it most definitely was not worth it.

Good perspective is everything!

Be real, be good, be freed! 

Do Not kill your ex.

Just pretend they are dead and enjoy your new lease on life thinking they are forever gone!